Self-love from an Islamic perspective / Wan Noorli Razali

Self-love, often misunderstood as narcissism or selfishness, holds significant importance in Islam. It refers to valuing oneself as a creation of Allah, maintaining self-respect, and fulfilling one's physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. Islam emphasizes balance, advocating for self-care without compromising the rights of others or becoming overly indulgent. In Islam, human beings are honoured as the best of creation (Qur’an, 17:70). This recognition encourages individuals to acknowledge their intrinsic value. Self-love begins with the understanding that one’s life and existence are part of Allah’s divine plan. Valuing oneself is not arrogance but a reflection of gratitude for Allah's blessings. Islam teaches that the body is a trust (Amanah) from Allah. Self-care, such as maintaining good hygiene, eating healthily, and seeking medical treatment is a form of fulfilling this trust. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “Your body has a right over you" (Sahih al-Bukhari, 5199). Similarly, spiritual care, including regular prayers, dhikr (remembrance of Allah), and reflection, nurtures the soul.